secondary

secondary identities

these are other labels that i identify with that could be anything from a sexuality label to a gender label or just whatever else!!

xenofriend is an umbrella term for xenogendered variants of terms such as boyfriend, girlfriend, enbyfriend, or joyfriend. it can be used on its own, or replaced with the xenogender prefix. for example: stargender becomes starfriend and lovegender becomes lovefriend!

namepreffluid is when a person who always goes by the same names (whether that be just 2 or a large hoard) but their preferred name(s) change.

pronounflux is when your preferred pronouns fluctuate over time. one's pronouns may fluctuate over the course of hours, days, weeks or months. the gender of the person does not matter, and does not have to fluctuate with the pronouns.
example: pronouns hoarders may have primary/favorite pronouns that change, but still vibe with the others.

T4T, short for Trans For Trans describes a trans person who primarily dates other trans people. For some, this may be exclusive, but for others, it may just be a preference. For me, I just prefer to date trans people :>

syndeamorous is a form of gamyflux and/or ambiamory where someone’s place on the monogamy-polyamory spectrum defaults to the orientations and preferences of their partner(s).

ambiamorous people who have a preference for polyamorous relationships

queer is an umbrella term often used by people in the LGBTQA+ community to self describe their identity!

a pronoun hoarder or pronoun collector is someone who hoards pronouns. when they see a new set of pronouns and feel like they fit, they will start using them. a pronoun collector does not have to use all the pronoun sets they hear about.

a name hoarder or name collector refers to anyone who uses, hoards or collects multiple names.

a gender hoarder is someone who can’t find just a few terms to describe what their fluctuating gender is, so they “hoard” gender terms that fit them.

nebularomantic describes a person who has a hard time distinguishing romantic and platonic attraction or is unable to do so due to their neurodivergency!

hyperdemireciproflux is an aromantic fluctuating identity in which one is sometimes hyperromantic, sometimes demiromantic, and sometimes recipromantic!

romance drained arospec is a romantic stance in which one is repulsed by romance due to trauma and exhaustion.

favperconfusromantic is a label defining the experience where somebody cannot tell the difference between a romantic and platonic attachment to some or all of their favorite persons.

Ace4Ace is a label describing asexuals who prefer to date other asexuals

this is the mlm/nblm asexual/acespec flag! this is for men or nonbinary people that are asexual or on the ace spectrum and are attracted to men!

this is the mlm/nblm flag! this is for men or nonbinary people that are attracted to men! this attraction doesn't have to be exclusive though, meaning bi, pan, etc mlm are included in this flag as well!

eosian describes someone who presents neutrally, but does not necessarily identify as a neutral gender!

a xenoboy is someone who identifys as both xenic and a boy.

a bxy is a label describing someone who experiences boy and agender simultaneously or with variation.

agendercuteboy is a label where your experience with being an agender boy is focused on the aspects of cuteness. A gender that is strongly connected to genderless masculinity/boyhood and to anything that fits the user’s definition of ‘cute’.

paraboy is a gender where someone feels mostly as a boy/man, but not entirely. The male portion takes up 51-99% of their gender. for me, agender takes up the rest of it.

this is similar to demiboy, but specifically describes a gender where someone is 51% to 99% boy

in my personal experience, I am boyflux and a demiboy. my masculine gender fluctuates from 100% (boy) to 0% (agender) but usually settles anywhere in between. so, I could be a demiboy, a paraboy, a boy, agender, etc. however, most of the time, both some boy and some agender is still present.

boyish is an umbrella term for any sort of male-aligned, man-aligned, boy-aligned, or masculine-aligned gender

boyish can also be an identity on its own for one who feels like they are sort of a boy, not quite a boy, not fully a boy, almost a boy, a little bit of a boy, or any other sort of variation of that could be described as boyish.

autokithromantic is an autospec term for when one experiences romantic attraction toward one ore more of their own hearttypes / kiths.